A small kindness to your future self

The friend who googles them for you, but better.

A gentle, thorough background check before your first date. So you can show up curious, not anxious.

Start a check  →Peek at a report
$9.99 · 3 minutes · No account required
What you get

A short, kind report. Not a dossier.

We pull together what’s already public — quietly, quickly, and without notifying them — and write it up the way a thoughtful friend would.

Tuesday’s coffee
Marcus, 32
Worth a chat
He is who he says he is.
Name, age, neighborhood — all check out.
No criminal record.
Clean across county, state, and federal.
Two dating profiles he hasn't mentioned.
Tinder Plus and Feeld, last active this week.
His main photo isn't his.
Reverse image found it in a 2021 Reddit post.
How it works

Three minutes. That’s it.

01
Tell us what you have
A name. Maybe a photo or an email. We'll work with whatever you can share — even just a screenshot of their profile.
02
We do the looking
40+ public sources, in parallel. They'll never know we were there. You can close the tab — we'll email when it's done.
03
Read it on the train
A short, plain-English report. Green is good, yellow means ask a question, red means stop and reconsider.

“I used to spend two hours stalking someone before a first date. Now I spend ten bucks and read a one-page summary on the way to the bar.”

— Sasha, Brooklyn · used trustmy.date 11 times
Pricing

Pay only when you need it.

· One flat price
$9.99
per check  ·  no subscription
Username search across 400+ platforms
Data breach & leaked email check
Reverse image search
Phone carrier & line-type lookup
Social profile deep-dive
Plain-English summary report
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7-day no-questions refund  ·  how it works
The promises

We are quiet.
We are careful.
We forget.

The person you check is never contacted. We don’t send a “they searched for you” email. We don’t share what you told us — not with them, not with each other, not with anyone.

Your report is yours for 30 days, then permanently destroyed. We don’t keep copies. We don’t train models on it. It just goes away, the way a good secret should.